100-Year-Old Former Sea Captain Steps Aboard the Parsifal in Southampton

14 July 2025 Rownhams Manor

Rownhams Manor care home, part of Oyster Care Homes, helped make 100-year-old resident Brendon Cooke’s dream come true when he was welcomed aboard the Parsifal ship for a memorable day at sea. 

A lifelong sailor, Brendon began his maritime career as a cadet at 17 and spent over 40 years at sea — including 20 years as a captain with the P&O Steamship Company. 

Warmly received by the Parsifal’s crew and captain, Brendon was given a VIP tour of the ship.  

“The technology is remarkable,” Brendon remarked as he marvelled at how much ships have advanced. “Back in my day, it was all manual work and much smaller! I don’t think I’ll take her out tonight…” 

After his tour, Brendon enjoyed coffee in the dining area with the captain while sharing stories of life on the ocean and his time travelling the world – his favourite destination being Australia, where he and his wife got married. 

Upon their departure, Brendon shared some advice with the captain; ‘I hope you get to my age – the secret is gin.’ 

Samantha Squibb, the General Manager at Rownhams Manor, joined Brendon on the trip. Samantha said, ‘We’re always looking to create meaningful, personalised experiences for each resident.’ 

‘Brendon told us how touched he was by the experience, and so were we. These are the moments that define our care — making memories truly special.’ 

You can learn more about life at Rownhams Manor during the home’s weekly event, Tea on Tuesday, every Tuesday at from 10:30. Taking place in the home on Harrison Way in Rownhams (Southampton, SO16 8NG), all are welcome to join the residents and staff for homemade cakes and refreshments.  

To find out more, call 02381102248, email rownhams@oystercarehomes.co.uk or visit the home’s website.  

Rownhams Manor care home in Southampton, operated by Oyster Care Homes, offers 24-hour residential, dementia and respite care for up to 66 people. With ensuite bedrooms, beautiful social spaces, and landscaped gardens, Rownhams Manor offers an inclusive fee to give peace of mind to its residents and families. 

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